They Slept In The Same Bed. But Lived in Two Different Worlds….
Now? They’re Building a Future Together—In Just 12 Weeks.
This Isn’t Therapy.
This Is the Most Effective Couples’ Intervention in North America. Period.
Dear Couple On The Fence,
Let me tell you a story.
A few years ago, a couple sat across from me, barely speaking, barely touching.
They weren’t yelling. There were no slammed doors or teary ultimatums.
They were indifferent.
They didn’t hate each other. They didn’t really love each other either
They just… existed. In the same house. Raising kids. Paying bills. Sharing silence.
They told me what most couples in North America say:
“We’re not in crisis. But we’re not connected either.”
“Communication Issues” they called it.
If that sounds familiar, you’re not alone.
70% of couples admit they feel more like roommates than romantic partners. [Gottman Institute, 2022]
And the average couple waits 6 years—six years of silence, resentment, and missed moments—before getting help. [Journal of Marital & Family Therapy]
But let’s be blunt:
Waiting doesn’t heal. It hardens.
And the longer you coast in quiet dissatisfaction, the harder it is to find your way back.
But there is a way back.
And it doesn’t require years of therapy.
This Self-Paced Online Course Rewires Connection… Fast.
I built this program because I saw the flaws in classic therapy firsthand.
As a trained therapist, I realized something unsettling:
We weren’t trained to solve problems. We were trained to keep clients coming back.
That’s not healing. That’s staying stuck.
My breaking point came when I heard Harville Hendrix, whose groundbreaking work Getting the Love You Want transformed modern relationship therapy, admit that couples therapy was doing more harm than good.
And I agree!
As relationship therapists we were reinjuring people by digging into their pain over and over without ever resolving the underlying issues.
So I stopped.
And I built something better.
A structured, science-backed, evidence-based relationship recovery approach that doesn’t dwell in the past but creates a new future.
Today, The Intentional Relationship helps couples across the world go from silence… to safety. From indifference… to intimacy.
Not in years. In weeks.
49%
of divorced couples say their split was avoidable.
American Academy of Matrimonial Lawyers
90%
of couples report increased satisfaction after completing structured couples work.
AAMFT, 2023
75%
of couples who try evidence-based interventions like EFT recover and thrive long-term.
Johnson, 2021
70%
of couples have NEVER tried a focused relationship program.
Why Most Couples Stay Stuck (But You Don’t Have To)
The numbers don’t lie. The stats speak for themselves:
That’s not a failure
of love.
That’s a failure
of access.
That’s not a failure of love. That’s a failure of access.
You’re not broken. You’ve just never been given the right process.
The Intentional Relationship Program gives you that.
A short-term, high-impact system to:
* Rebuild trust—even after years of distance
* End the walking on eggshells and start communicating without fear
* Rekindle emotional and sexual intimacy (without forced date nights)
* Create a relationship that isn’t just stable—but deeply satisfying
You won’t be sitting in therapy talking about your childhood.
You’ll be creating a partnership as a team with tools that actually work.
How It Works
Self-Paced Online Course. Learn at your own pace, in your own time.
Step-by-step video lessons, practical exercises, and guided tools.
Built from proven principles in Evolutionary Psychology, Emotional Coaching, and Relationship Dynamics
Includes 25% off 1:1 sessions with me, Anthony Santen, during your course, if you ever want personalized support.
By the end, you’ll walk away with:
A clear understanding of your needs and how to meet each other’s without compromise.
Emotional safety, acceptance, and actual peace at home.
Intimacy that feels natural again.
Most couples say it’s better than their honeymoon phase.
Because this time, it’s intentional.
This Is For You If:
You raise your voice, but there’s still no breakthrough.
You’ve stopped fighting because you’ve stopped trying.
You’re afraid to be honest because it “starts something”.
You sleep next to each other but feel miles apart.
You still want to love each other—but don’t know how.
Sound familiar?
Then this is your chance.
To interrupt the drift. To stop living parallel lives. To give love a second chance—intelligently and emotionally.
Program Outline
A 16-Week Self-Paced Experience to Revive, Repair & Reinvent Your Partnership
90–120 mins/week | Private | Self-Led | Real Results
Optional VIP Sessions with Anthony Santen for 25% off therapy sessions are available at key transformation points.
Book Your 1-on-1 at Key Turning Points
1-on-1 sessions are optional and available for 25% OFF during your course journey. Use them to go deeper, get feedback, or tackle personal blocks.
📍 You’ll find the booking link inside your course dashboard.
Why This Works
(When Therapy Often Doesn’t)
Let’s compare:
Traditional Couples Therapy
• Indefinite sessions
• Unstructured conversations
• Therapist takes sides
• Digs into the past
• Often unclear progress
The Intentional Relationship
✓ Self-paced and complete on your schedule
✓ Step-by-step curriculum with real tools
✓ Judgment-free structure you both follow
✓ Focuses on building your future
✓ Proven exercises with clear milestones
We don’t do therapy.
We do results.
And if you ever want deeper support during your journey, you can book a private session with me at 25% OFF
throughout the course and even after you’ve completed it.
It’s an exclusive perk I offer to only course alumni.
What Would It Cost to Fix Your Relationship the Old Way?
If you were to piece this journey together through traditional methods, here’s what you’d be paying:
Total: $7000 ?
(And that’s conservative.)
But even if we packed all of that value into a single streamlined system…
The full price of this 16-week program is $1,997.
And it’s worth every penny.
You’re getting a complete, therapist-designed relationship intervention—without dragging through years of expensive sessions.
Pricing
But Today, You're Not Paying $1,997. Not $1,000. Not Even $500.
You’re getting 85% OFF the original value.
You save $1,697.45 (For unlimited lifetime access)
And all the tools to change everything
LIMITED-TIME OFFER:
$299.55
No fluff. No subscription. Just results.
✓ 16-Week Curriculum
✓ Science-Backed Tools
✓ Self-Paced Convenience
✓ Lifetime Access
✓ 25% OFF 1-on-1 Coaching With Anthony (if needed)
30-Day Money-Back Guarantee
We built The Intentional Relationship for couples who still believe love is worth fighting for, but just need the right tools to find their way back.
That’s why we stand behind it completely.
✓ Go through the lessons.
✓ Do the exercises.
✓ Feel the shift.
If, within 30 days, you feel like this course didn’t help you move closer to understanding, connection, and real change, we’ll give you a full refund.
No games. No guilt trips. No hard feelings.
Because you deserve a real shot at rebuilding what matters most.
And honestly?
This is worth a shot.
We believe in your second chance, maybe even more than you do right now.
Take the first step. You’ll be glad you did.
Your Second Chance Starts Here
Don’t wait for another 6 years of disconnection.
Don’t let apathy be the slow death of your love.
If there’s even a spark left, this program can reignite it.
Let’s rebuild. Let’s reconnect. Let’s do it intentionally.
Anthony Santen, Counseling Therapist, SAC Dip(Adv. Psychotherapy)
Founder: The Intentional Relationship
25-Year Relationship Recovery Specialist
Frequently Asked Questions
No. This is a self-paced online course. You learn the tools, strategies, and insights on your own time—together or solo. If you want 1:1 support, you can book Anthony anytime for 25% off.
That’s okay—starting the course can inspire the other to join in. It’s built for solo or together progress.
Self-paced. Most couples complete it in 12–16 weeks, but you can go faster or slower depending on your needs.
Yes. All lessons are online. 100% private and convenient.
That’s precisely why we’ve created this program. Beyond conventional therapy, this structured and self-guided course focuses on holistic growth, emphasizing rebuilding over reliving past experiences.
© Copyright 2021 Anthony Santen SAC DIP(Adv. Psychotherapy) Counseling Online
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